Monday, October 10, 2011

My very first published article!!

Seminar examines what makes good students
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SE students were urged to take their education seriously during a Sept. 22 seminar.
Counselor Bob Phanelson and English assistant professor Benita Reed presented Characteristics of a Highly Effective Student to more than 100 students.


“When business is done, then you can play hard,” Phanelson said.

A well-thought-out and well-scripted résumé is important, they said. Both agreed that branding oneself or “creating your own marketability” is critical.

Students also should consider learning another language because being bilingual is a big advantage, Phanelson said.
“The competition is global now,” he said.

The common languages used in today’s workforce go beyond English and Spanish and include French, Vietnamese, Mandarin and American Sign Language, Phanelson said.
Through a PowerPoint, the pair listed the characteristics of an effective student. A student must take good notes, be willing to study anywhere, self-test and be organized to be successful, they said.

Phanelson elaborated on each point in the list.
“Take care of your education with a business-like approach,” he said.

Students need to become involved with campus organizations and become active volunteers in the community, Phanelson said.
Volunteerism shows dedication and discipline in ways that a degree by itself simply cannot, he said. Volunteerism can be a successful mechanism to impress future employers by adding credibility to one’s reliability and work ethic, Phanelson said.

Brenda Holifield, a first-year transfer student, said she enjoyed the seminar.
“[It] gives you a few tips to get the full extent of the class,” she said.

Student Lynnette Pike agreed with Phanelson’s message.

“Some people just don’t do the right things to be successful,” she said

http://collegian.tccd.edu/index.php?option=com_content&view=article&id=1880%3Aseminar-examines-what-makes-good-students&catid=122%3Avolume-24-issue-6-october-5-2011&Itemid=147

Sunday, May 15, 2011

A new fad sets a trend for disaster.

PLANKING (plain-king)
noun: involves an individual laying flat on their stomach in sometimes dangerous conditions.


WHAT THE HELL ARE YOU DOING? PRETENDING TO BE WOOD?

Who just lets themselves get this bored??? And why are you're friends supporting your less than intelligent decisions by taking pictures??  Hopefully, this is a trend that stays in the UK and away from the US. This dangerous (and senseless) new "game" has already taken the life of one Australian as he "plunk" off a seven story building.
.http://www.msnbc.msn.com/id/43036847/ns/world_news-asiapacific/

AND FB plankers have a page .... http://www.facebook.com/#!/pages/Planking-Australia/147452668649160

....and they want May 25 to be National Planking Day. WHY? Who knows...but I will NOT be joining the festivities this year....or any year.

Stilettos! Pumps! ....Penises??

Only Lady GaGa would invest in penis-heeled shoes. C'mon now!! Penises!!! It's obvious that she likes to be the center of attention, but wouldn't be a bit more satisfying if you were being talked about for your talent? Just a thought. I feel like she's more weird than "eccentric." Her style? She just wants your attention.

Monday, May 9, 2011

Wade Robson-Burning Room-Ben Susak & Pam Chu

John Mayer - Slow Dancing In A Burning Room

"There's no better time than the present to be better than we were yesterday." -Gary Kelle

Due to my own personal troubles, I haven't been happy in a long time. I've been rejected as long as I can remember. Although not until recently, did I begin to feel rejected by my friends. Or so-called friends. No, before I was only rejected by my ever-present father. I grew up not knowing how to think or even feel about him. He was a real man and took care of his children...but only in a financial sense. I never felt loved by him, or accepted....or even wanted. The one activity that kept me going in HS was my drill team. Dancing has always taken me to a different place. It's like I'm being transported to a world where I don't have to feel anything and the rejection goes away. I thought I could escape those feelings when I moved away and came to college, but here they are again. I joined a dance group my second semester of college and I love it! I have learned so much from them all. Months ago, things got weird in my personal life and it carried over into  my dance and school life. Now I don't feel welcome at all in my dance "family." And I start to think that there's more than a good chance that it's my fault. The moment I feel as if I'm unwanted I change my outlook on who or what it is that makes me feel this way. So I stopped going to classes and participating because I somehow knew they wouldn't miss me. Now I feel like they talk about me behind my back. So I told a few people that I was leaving because "I don't think I can grow here." That statement was beyond bullshit. The truth is that I don't think I fit in, and it's easier to give up than try again.

So this purpose of this blog is to find people like me, who are so sad and bogged down with personal crap that no one may ever know about and give them (and me) a reason to smile.